Wednesday, February 02, 2005

Learn to compliment

Hello faithful blog readers.it's really been a long time since I updated my page.Was talkign to MARK yesterday and he 'inspired' me to update my page.So here it is.Nothing much has been happening.same old routine everyday.i'm looking forward to the CNY holidays though.One week of rest and hopefully enough time to do ADD MATH.:-(
I was reading this short passage in a book i think its very helpful.So yeah,happy reading and have a greta week!

Ask yourself,"Am i told that I am good looking,clever,capable,efficient,humorous,lovable or wonderful, as often as we would like?" The answer is probably"No", isn't it? The same goes for all of us.We never get enough compliments.
Compliments are a bit like food-even if we get a sweet compliment today, we're hungry for more tomorrow.Even sports heroes and movie stars love compliments.Watch famous people being interviewed on television.When the interviewer tells them they did a fantastic job, you see their faces glowing!
What does this tell you?Everybody loves to have theirs efforts recognised.Your father likes to hear"Dad, you cooked a great barbeque!" Your mother likes to hear"you look cool in that outfit!" Your teacher likes ot hear"that was a great lesson!"
Yu'll probably be thinking"Why should i bother to compliment other people?" Firstly,it makes you feel good.
Secondly, it makes them feel good.
Thirdly, when you notice qualities in other people, they begin to notice them in you. They start to compliment you-and so you feel good more often.
So,don't be afraid to compliment someone. Let it be your family,friends,partner, or even someone you don't know.ypou never know how much you could brighten up someones day!Signing out!

1 comment:

M@rK said...

thanks for updating it :P